Seeing the predicament of some of the younger geeks (boys all of them) at Bangalore I had joked that I will write a HOW-TO for them on flirting and dating, after coming back some events also made me consider the point seriously BUT when I got down to it and cut away all the fluff about how looks don’t really matter and how to be charming and which kind of girl etc etc it all boils down to a few simple lines
Will she go out with me – ASK
Will she like me – ASK
Is she already going around – ASK
Will she let me kiss (or fill in the blank with your preferred activity) – ASK
Don’t get stuck in the “what if …. …. ?” fill in the blank with your favorite dilemma
There is no fool like the one who never asked.
Lastly – Rejection from one does not mean rejection from all even if you *right now* feel she was *the* one
May be the ladies around will have some more things add to this but in my experience this should suffice in 99% of the cases