The “Mere paas Maa hai!” factor

I had been struggling since some time to give a name or a phrase to the set of conditions which drives a person to work and continue working in a small setup. While this is very easy to define within a start-up – the “Lucy in the sky with diamonds” factor, a maturing but still small enterprise is long past such delusions.

Thanks to my recent illness and the cable-guys blacking out anything but Bollywood – I was enlightened with the “Mere paas Maa hai!” factor.

So what is this factor?

Well it is at least in part intangible yet the love and pride for *it* is so powerful that it can override many of the tangible and materialistic benefits which a person might derive if he were to be assimilated in a bigger enterprise.

Something which goads you and guides you at the same time to do what is right. Something which makes your sleep a satisfied one at the end of the day. Something which makes you want to reach back to what you were doing the next morning. Something which sets you free. and yet something which binds you…

It is a very tough task to cultivate this in a work place and a tougher task to inculcate this into your co-workers – but if you do listen to what your business is trying to tell you, if you do have your hand on the pulse of your employees you will know what to do and when, on second thoughts if you are already aware of the above then most probably you have chosen people who will value the above to work with you…

If you are working in a small setup and are happy – I would like to hear about *your* “Mere paas Maa hai” factor.


P.S. The phrase “Mere paas Maa hai” literally translated means “I have (my) Mother with me” refers to a reply given by Ravi (Shashi Kapoor) to his older brother Vijay (Amitabh Bacchan) in the 1975 Bollywood super hit Deewar

  • that…was a very articulate, moving post. I don’t know if you will be the most successful entrepreneur…but you will be amongst the happiest…and success does have a way of following satisfaction and competence.

    I am looking forward more and more to meeting you.

    • Pardon my arrogance but were you a gullible mother? ;;)

      I will add more when I get an answer…

      • hmm…. gullible mother….hmmm..I wouldn’t use that past tense though…

        now add more!

        • The first over the shoulder comment to this post was “only gullible mothers will appreciate this post”

          Well – since there *are* responses I have been vindicated since then…

  • much blogged about …

    My blog’s mostly worthless junk and mainly due to that, I manage to hide some of my more blasphemous posts in plain daylight.

    I’m sure you’ll find enough in there between these lines. Read this or this or the extra bile versions – enough and more.

    Are you pondering, what I’m pondering ?

    • Re: much blogged about …

      I have followed those rants with much interest and have always wanted to ask you – what were your expectations from your boss/seniors and the management in general? In your opinion what could they have done to stem that rot?

      • Re: much blogged about …

        One of the basic things is knowing you’ve made a difference. But it is hard to achieve in a job and unless you get in the ground floor of a company, that’d be hard to do. [the other way is to build something that almost everyone uses, aka platforms *heh*]

        > what were your expectations from your boss/seniors and the management in general?

        One of my basic expectations from a boss was transparency. I don’t really appreciate being told to work on something that was going to be cancelled at the end of the year or something that would probably never make it to production.

        For them to be able to do that, I’d have to be treated as something other than as a ‘resource’, but as a ‘person’ with my own motivations and goals. This is something that becomes exponentially harder according to the heirarchy above me. When there are three people between me and the eventual decision maker, I can probably get my message pushed through with a bit of screaming. But when the number’s raised to five, I’ve found it literally impossible to communicate upwards in any useful way.

        Secondly to be treated as an induvidual, you need to be seen as an independent entity – which also becomes progressively harder when the company base grows broader. To preserve the small company ethos while growing, is hard – the solution (IMHO) is to not to rush through the 500 people barrier quickly, but to do it over two years or something.

        > In your opinion what could they have done to stem that rot?

        One of the biggest things which can stem the rot is internal growth. I’ve worked with a couple of people in Wipro who’ve been there since mid/late nineties. I’ve found that people who are home grown have a better relationship with the heart of the company, than someone who is brought in late and pushed up above/with the old timers.

        Hiring external talent might be a necessity, but when you start growing by hiring on top, rather than hiring upwards laterally from other places – you essentially are borrowing a bit of company culture *and* playing down your own. The practice is not limited to the leadership rung of career growth.

        For example, take a hypothetical someone who has been performing very well individually at a task. Now having gained the confidence of the upper management – he (or she) should obviously be augmented with team members. But the particular kind of rot I’ve seen happen is when the person’s left to do the same task in a sort of “Don’t fix what ain’t broken” and hire new people to do the next iteration/generation of the product. And then to hire a team lead to satisfy the pyramid of power.

        Having an outsider come in and do further development, while you’re being made a victim of your own performance is very very depressing. It is one of the most common ways you can destroy somebody’s work ethic, without realizing it. And then there’s performance inversion – something which’s on my ‘to blog’ list.

        Last but not least : Nothing motivates a man more than to see his boss put in an honest day’s work.

        Essentially, you have to give people something to work for rather than their monthly paycheck.

        • Re: much blogged about …

          Thank you, Gopal.
          What you have written is a reaffirmation of my faith and beliefs of the way SANIsoft has been run and will be in future.
          Tarique works in the pit, with my team, so he perhaps already knows all this, but coming from you, it made a bigger difference for me.
          I am looking forward to your post on performance inversion.

          • Re: much blogged about …

            here.

            • Re: much blogged about …

              Just read it – this not only happens in offices but also when work has been outsourced to you and the project manager at the client side is technically clueless…

              In fact I had a show down yesterday with one such client wherein I refused to work further, but to his credit he realised his mistake and sent an appropriate mail.

        • Re: much blogged about …

          Thanks for your thoughts.

  • Totally offtopic

    Did you get a mail which I sent you? If no how do I mail you?

    • Re: Totally offtopic

      No I did not… but if you don’t already know how to reach me then you probably don’t need to :))

      Try tarique@sanisoft.com

  • Me !

    I am working for a startup for 2 quarters now and I would say I did not feel as satisfied in last 5 years. The factors are:
    1) The executive team reinforces the fact that the success of the company is directly propotional to individual’s success.
    2) Recognition, appreciation and learning.
    3) Management being completely transparent makes the employee an integral part of decision making process.
    4) Freedom to choose and pressure to push yourself to the best.

    Basically understanding the difference between “getting a pay” and “earning it”.

    • Re: Me !

      Basically understanding the difference between “getting a pay” and “earning it”.

      Thanks – very aptly put