Comments on: Solo thought https://tariquesani.net/blog/2003/07/08/solo-thought/ Pediatrician and a Forensic Expert. A passionate PHP geek. Currently CTO, SANIsoft. Also a photographer, bird watcher, nature lover and a FOSS enthusiast. Mon, 19 Sep 2016 13:33:04 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.5.3 By: sohnipreet https://tariquesani.net/blog/2003/07/08/solo-thought/#comment-865 Fri, 11 Jul 2003 07:14:50 +0000 https://tarique.sanisoft.com/lj/?p=325#comment-865 No Comment. 😐

]]> By: tariquesani https://tariquesani.net/blog/2003/07/08/solo-thought/#comment-862 Thu, 10 Jul 2003 23:07:08 +0000 https://tarique.sanisoft.com/lj/?p=325#comment-862 Sigh! men can be such petty bitches at times…

]]> By: sohnipreet https://tariquesani.net/blog/2003/07/08/solo-thought/#comment-855 Thu, 10 Jul 2003 03:15:04 +0000 https://tarique.sanisoft.com/lj/?p=325#comment-855 Now step back and consider the dilemma of the person
They sulk and keep wishing

Exactly my feelings right now!! Do you understand the dilemma of the person when she doesn’t find the your reply something like this – ‘Preeti, thank you for enlightening me. You are super smart and super considerate person in whole wide world. I bow to thy.’ 😉
[I understand what you mean/feel when you have to accept that you are ultimately left with obvious choices…]
Take care.

]]> By: tariquesani https://tariquesani.net/blog/2003/07/08/solo-thought/#comment-851 Wed, 09 Jul 2003 18:59:28 +0000 https://tarique.sanisoft.com/lj/?p=325#comment-851 Mademoiselle, I would like to simplify it before you jump to conclusions.

Picture this – there is a dilemma about 2+2=4. Now someone dear to you comes and convinces you a with rational logic (See these two fingers here and two fingers here and count) that 2+2 is indeed equal to 4 and cannot be anything else…

Your mind agrees to it and you say yes!! BUT in your heart you don’t want 2+2 to be 4.

In such a situation what do most people do?

1) They sulk and keep wishing that 2+2 was not 4
2) They go further and resent the person who told them 2+2 was 4

Now step back and consider the dilemma of the person who told you that 2+2 was 4, further more compound it with the fact that he may not know/understand whats your grouse OR why you are dissatisfied.

This I guess explains my previous statement very clearly. The solution in my opinion is not to accept the dichotomy of heart and mind and I guess what to choose is an obvious choice.

That said – it is easier said than done 🙂

]]> By: sohnipreet https://tariquesani.net/blog/2003/07/08/solo-thought/#comment-849 Wed, 09 Jul 2003 14:13:18 +0000 https://tarique.sanisoft.com/lj/?p=325#comment-849 Irrationality and hatred
Monsieur, if you let that happen, what would happen to mortals like me? Do you think it’s possible to achieve eternal harmony unless you are someone like Dalai Lama? To me, detachment seems the way to achieve harmony but can we do that when we still have to live and survive in material world?
I know I don’t make sense. I just wish that I can just take away my friend’s worries and put a smile on his face. Take care. 🙂

]]> By: tariquesani https://tariquesani.net/blog/2003/07/08/solo-thought/#comment-846 Tue, 08 Jul 2003 16:46:56 +0000 https://tarique.sanisoft.com/lj/?p=325#comment-846 Irrationality and hatred 🙁

The dichotomy should end for harmony to be there !!

]]> By: sohnipreet https://tariquesani.net/blog/2003/07/08/solo-thought/#comment-845 Tue, 08 Jul 2003 13:32:20 +0000 https://tarique.sanisoft.com/lj/?p=325#comment-845 umm..if both are victims then what ultimately rules?

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