Humans are perhaps the only animals in whom sex is a learned behavior and sadly very few learn it right in the first place.

Here are a few random “right start-up” tips which I can think of… …

The most important ingredient for repeated good sex with the same partner is LOVE.

The second most important ingredient is COMMUNICATION – in short ASK

The third ingredient is de-focus the act from COITUS – there much more to it than “wham bham thank you ma’am”

Planned sex is just as good as spontaneous sex, and what follows as a corollary is no sex != no love.

If it hurts – you are not doing it right.

Forget G spot, search out Y spots (Spots which make him/her wonder why are you doing it

Be innovative – a personal fav is the game of “No Touch” – Think what it could be!

Lastly if you really need help – get a good book which tells you how, like “The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Amazing Sex